🌹 Someone once asked me:“What do you get out of writing poetry, quotes, and fundraising for charities?”The truth? I don’t get much in the material sense.But I gain something far greater:
✨ The joy of turning words into hope.
✨ The chance to give voice to those who feel unseen.
✨ The opportunity to let art serve a purpose bigger than myself.That’s why I wrote If Rose Could Talk—a poem reminding working professionals to pause, breathe, and remember their worth.
For me, poetry is not just about beauty, it’s about impact.I don’t just write for myself—I write so words can bloom into kindness. 🌹
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Have you ever noticed how the world seems to get louder every day? The constant notifications, the endless demands, the relentless pressure to do and achieve… It can be deafening, leaving us feeling disconnected from ourselves and yearning for a sense of inner peace.
I spent years chasing that peace in external sources: accomplishments, relationships, even adventures. But what I discovered, ultimately, was that the most profound healing begins not in the external world, but within. It starts in the quiet spaces, the moments of stillness where we can truly listen to our own hearts.
That journey of personal discovery is what led me to write “Healing in Stillness” a book dedicated to exploring the transformative power of inner stillness. It’s not about escaping the world, but about cultivating a sanctuary within so that you can navigate life’s challenges with greater resilience, clarity, and joy.
“Healing in Silence” is an invitation to rediscover your own inner wisdom. To nurture the wounded parts of yourself. To find strength not in the noise, but in the quiet, powerful voice within.
What if the key to healing isn’t found in loud conversations, but in the profound wisdom of silence? My upcoming book, “Healing in Silence,” explores the transformative power of inner stillness. Are you ready to listen? #HealingInSilence #InnerPeace #SelfDiscovery #Mindfulness
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If you were going to open up a shop, what would you sell?
Not all shops sell things.Some sell hope.Some sell change.Some sell the belief that kindness can be bought — and given away — in the same moment.If I opened a shop, it wouldn’t be just shelves and counters.It would be a beating heart wrapped in four walls,a place where each item whispered a storyand every sale became a seed of change.
I would call it “The Giving Corner.”A space where books breathe hope,where handcrafted treasures carry the touch of their makers,and where even the smallest purchaseripples out to feed a hungry soul,lift a struggling dreamer,or plant dignity where the soil was once barren.In one corner, my words would rest —poems, stories, and thoughts stitched with care,waiting for hands to hold themand hearts to carry them forward.Because to me, a shop is not a business.It’s a bridge.
A way to connect your kindness to someone else’s tomorrow.A place where buying becomes giving,and every transactionis just another way of saying,“You matter.”And if you walked out of my shop,you wouldn’t just carry a bag.You’d carry a piece of someone’s hope.
💬 Your turn: If you opened a shop, what would your walls hold — and what would it stand for?#SocialImpact #Entrepreneurship #KindnessInAction #PenByZee
(Continuation of my earlier post: “Letting Away Your Roots to Change the Fruits”)
In life, our “roots” aren’t just where we come from — they are the thoughts we nurture, the habits we repeat, the people we surround ourselves with, and the stories we keep telling ourselves.
Sometimes, these roots feed us with strength and wisdom. But other times, they keep us stuck in the same season, producing the same “fruits” — outcomes we no longer want.
Why We Hold On to Old Roots
Comfort Zone – The familiar feels safe, even when it limits us.
Fear of Change – Letting go means uncertainty, and uncertainty can feel risky.
Emotional Attachments – People, places, and patterns we’ve grown with feel like part of our identity.
Signs It’s Time to Change the Roots
Issues Encountered
You keep repeating the same mistakes or cycles despite wanting different results.
Your goals excite you, but your daily actions don’t align with them.
You feel drained, uninspired, or “stuck” even when everything seems fine on the surface.
How to Start Changing the Roots (Without Losing Yourself)
Self-Audit Your Garden 🌿 – Write down the influences, habits, and beliefs shaping your life right now. Identify which ones feed your growth and which ones starve it.
Prune with Purpose ✂ – Let go of one unhelpful habit, thought pattern, or commitment that no longer serves your bigger vision.
Replant with Intention 🌸 – Replace the old with something that energizes you: new skills, empowering relationships, or a mindset shift.
Water Daily 💧 – Consistency is the secret. Small, repeated actions grow new roots stronger than you think.
The truth is, you can’t grow mangoes from an apple tree. If you want different fruits, you must be brave enough to change the roots that feed them.
So today, ask yourself: ✨ What one root will I change so my life can bear better fruits?
What change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?
If I could ask for one change—just one—from the words I share here, it would be this:
That we remember how deeply we need each other.
Not just in moments of crisis, not just when headlines remind us of suffering, but in the quiet, everyday spaces of life. The way a kind word softens someone’s day. The way shared stories remind us we’re not alone. The way a simple act of giving—whether food, time, or listening—can be a turning point in another person’s life.
My blog isn’t just about ideas, it’s about connection. It’s about building a place—however small—where we remember that compassion isn’t weakness, it’s strength. That empathy isn’t a luxury, but a foundation. That when we choose to lift one another, even in the smallest of ways, we are building something far greater than ourselves.
I want this space to be a quiet rebellion against indifference.
A reminder that even when the world seems hardened, you still have the power to soften it—through your words, your presence, your care.
What if we stopped seeing people as strangers… and started seeing them as stories waiting to be heard? What if we treated kindness not as a random act, but a conscious practice?
That is the change I hope this blog brings.
To inspire a deeper commitment to helping one another, to showing up with honesty, and to creating community where no one feels invisible
Because the truth is: The world doesn’t change because of grand gestures. It changes because we choose, again and again, to care.
So let this blog be a place where care lives. Where trust is nurtured. Where hope is kept alive not through perfection, but through the simple, sacred act of showing up—for one another.
This is Zoeb Ali – Zee, wishing you all the good luck in whatever positive, small or big you are doing in your life to improve life of your loved ones, unknown individuals and families struggling and needing your love ❤ and help and yourself. Keep reading my posts and comment,like and share so I know if my words make any difference to you. Thank you for reading my posts.
Discovering Your True Worth and Cultivating a Growth Mindset
Have you ever felt trapped by your past—your upbringing, beliefs, or circumstances—and wondered if you’ll ever become the person you dream of being?
Many of us were not born with a mindset wired for success, confidence, or abundance. Instead, we inherit habits, values, and limitations from our environment, often without realizing how deeply they shape our lives.
But here’s the truth:
You are not a tree. You can move. You can change. You can grow.
🌿 The Roots That No Longer Serve You
Your “roots” may include:
A childhood filled with self-doubt or fear
Cultural beliefs that limited your ambitions
Trauma, poverty, or discouragement
Internalized messages like “You’re not good enough” or “People like us can’t do that”
These are the invisible forces that feed your fruits—your current life outcomes. If you’ve been stuck, stagnant, or unfulfilled, it may be time to look beneath the surface.
But letting go of roots doesn’t mean losing your identity. It means choosing which parts of your story still deserve a place in your future.
🍎 Changing the Fruits: Shifting Your Mindset
To change the fruits, you must nourish your tree with something new:
Self-worth: You were born worthy, even if life taught you otherwise.
Awareness: Notice what patterns are repeating in your life. Ask why.
Courage: Breaking generational habits is hard—but it’s brave, and it’s worth it.
Relearning: It’s okay if no one taught you how to succeed. You can teach yourself now.
Mindset: Trade “I can’t” for “What if I could?”
Changing your mindset is not pretending everything is okay. It’s reprogramming your beliefs to align with what you want to achieve.
You don’t have to be born with confidence to become confident. You don’t have to be raised by dreamers to become one. You don’t have to have all the tools—just the willingness to start.
Maybe no one handed you the mindset for success. But you, right now, have the power to choose different thoughts, to nurture different habits, to feed your soul with belief, growth, and purpose.
🧠 How to Start Shifting Your Roots
Here are some powerful steps to begin:
Reflect deeply: Ask yourself, “What do I believe about myself—and where did that belief come from?”
Challenge your limits: Are your limits based on fact or fear? Whose voice is still echoing in your decisions?
Feed your mind with growth: Read books, listen to podcasts, or follow people who inspire the mindset you want to grow into.
Take small risks: Confidence grows through experience. Try something new, fail with grace, and keep going.
Affirm your worth daily: Your past doesn’t define your future. Repeat to yourself: “I am enough. I am capable. I am evolving.”
💬 Final Thoughts
Changing your life starts with changing your beliefs—and that means you might have to let go of the roots that were planted long ago. But don’t be afraid. You are not betraying your past; you are honoring your future.
Your roots got you this far. Now it’s time to choose which ones stay—and which ones you’re brave enough to let go of, so new fruit can grow.
You are not stuck. You are not broken. You are becoming.
So ask yourself today: What fruits do I want in my life—and what roots am I willing to let go of to grow them?
✨ If you enjoy reflections like these, you might find peace in my poetry — whispers shaped by silence and spirit.
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Letting Away Your Roots to Change the Fruits.
Here I am intending to discuss how changing the way we think, the way we have been grown up to achieve the success with the changing time and situations. As I myself have been through a lot of changes emotionally, physically and in another aspects of my life.
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Every human being, at some point in life, stumbles. Some mistakes are minor, easily forgotten with time, while others leave deep scars—on the self, on others, and on the fabric of society. When a person commits a sin, a transgression, or even a crime, the weight of their actions can feel unbearable. But does a single moment, or even a series of wrongful choices, define a person’s entire worth? Is wrongdoing the end of the road, sealing one’s fate forever? Or is there still a possibility for redemption, healing, and acceptance?
Society, by its nature, often views individuals through the lens of their worst moments. A single misstep can overshadow a lifetime of good deeds, and judgment can be swift and merciless. This is especially true in an era where mistakes are publicly scrutinized, and forgiveness seems harder to come by. However, human nature is far more complex than a binary of good and evil. The person who has wronged and the person who has suffered are both part of a deeply intertwined story—one filled with pain, emotions, and the possibility of transformation.
For the wrongdoer, guilt can be suffocating, an endless spiral of self-recrimination and despair. They may wrestle with regret, self-hatred, and the paralyzing fear of never being accepted again. For the sufferer, the weight of betrayal and hurt can be equally overwhelming, leaving behind wounds that take time, and sometimes a lifetime, to heal. Can these two paths ever find reconciliation? Can accountability and forgiveness coexist?
Understanding the Emotional Turmoil
For the Wrongdoer: The Cycle of Guilt and Shame
Guilt – The immediate realization of having caused harm can be overwhelming. A person might feel remorse, wishing they could undo their actions.
Shame – Unlike guilt, which focuses on the act, shame attacks one’s identity. It creates a self-perception of unworthiness.
Fear of Rejection – Many wrongdoers fear being cast out by society, family, or faith communities.
Seeking Forgiveness – There’s often an inner yearning to seek forgiveness, from the victim, society, or a higher power.
Despair or Hope? – Some fall into hopelessness, believing they are irredeemable. Others take the path of repentance and change.
For the Sufferer: The Battle with Pain and Anger
Betrayal and Hurt – Whether it’s a crime, a lie, or a moral failing, victims feel deeply wounded.
Anger and Resentment – A natural response, but when left unchecked, it can consume one’s peace.
The Need for Justice – Victims want accountability, not just an apology.
The Dilemma of Forgiveness – Is forgiveness possible? Is it deserved? Can one move forward without it?
The Struggle for Healing – True healing is not just about forgetting but processing the pain constructively.
Does Society Accept Wrongdoers?
Society tends to be harsh toward those who have done wrong, especially when the wrongdoing is public. Some people believe that those who have committed sins or crimes do not deserve a second chance. Others advocate for rehabilitation and believe in the possibility of change.
Cancel Culture vs. Redemption Culture – Are we punishing people indefinitely, or are we allowing room for growth?
Religious and Cultural Views – Many spiritual traditions, including Islam, Christianity, and Buddhism, emphasize redemption and transformation.
Legal and Social Reintegration – While laws provide consequences, should they also support reform and reintegration?
The Religious Perspective on Redemption and Forgiveness
Islamic Teachings on Repentance and Mercy
Islam teaches that no sin is beyond forgiveness if one sincerely repents.
Allah’s Mercy is Greater than Any Sin – “Say, ‘O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.’” (Qur’an 39:53)
The Concept of Tawbah (Repentance) – Sincere repentance requires remorse, stopping the wrongdoing, and committing to change.
Justice and Forgiveness – Islam balances justice with forgiveness, encouraging victims to forgive if possible but also upholding their right to justice.
Christianity: The Power of Grace
Christianity emphasizes grace and redemption.
The parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) illustrates God’s boundless mercy.
Forgiveness is a central teaching: “If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (Matthew 6:14)
Buddhism: The Path of Transformation
Buddhism teaches that actions (karma) shape our future but also that transformation is always possible.
Mindfulness and self-awareness help in breaking the cycle of wrongdoing.
Forgiveness is seen as essential for inner peace.
How to Overcome Guilt and Move Forward
For the Wrongdoer: Steps Toward Redemption
Acknowledge and Accept Responsibility – Own up to the mistake without justifying it.
Sincere Repentance – Apologize, not just in words but through actions.
Make Amends Where Possible – Seek to repair the harm caused.
Commit to Change – Reflect, learn, and take concrete steps toward self-improvement.
Seek Spiritual or Emotional Guidance – Connect with faith, therapy, or community support.
Forgive Yourself – Self-forgiveness is crucial for moving forward.
For the Sufferer: Steps Toward Healing
Acknowledge the Hurt – Don’t suppress emotions; process them healthily.
Set Boundaries – Forgiveness does not mean tolerating further harm.
Seek Justice if Needed – Healing doesn’t require ignoring justice.
Find Support – Talk to a trusted friend, counselor, or spiritual guide.
Consider Forgiveness for Your Own Peace – Even if reconciliation is impossible, letting go of anger can be freeing.
A Thought-Provoking End: Where Do We Go from Here?
Wrongdoing is not the end of the world, but it does require a conscious effort to heal, change, and grow. Both wrongdoers and those who suffer from their actions face emotional turmoil, yet healing is possible through accountability, repentance, and forgiveness.
Questions for Reflection:
Do you believe in second chances? Why or why not?
What role should society play in rehabilitating those who have done wrong?
How do you personally navigate forgiving someone who has hurt you?
If you’ve made mistakes in the past, what steps helped you move forward?
Can justice and mercy coexist, or are they in opposition?
Let’s discuss in the comments and explore different perspectives!
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