Most days do not announce themselves as heavy

A quiet reflection on everyday weight, rest, and the small comforts that help us return to ourselves.
They begin like any other—
with obligations, small hopes,
and the quiet promise that we will manage.


The things we carry home

By the time the day loosens its grip,
we are heavier than we were this morning.
Not from work alone,
but from words we swallowed,
expectations we wore politely,
and hopes we kept folded in our pockets.

We carry unfinished conversations,
the ache of trying to do right,
the quiet fear of not doing enough.
Some days, even joy feels delicate—
something to protect on the way back.

Home, then, is not an address.
It is a pause.
A place where the shoulders drop,
where hands remember warmth,
where the noise of the world
learns to speak softly.

I have learned that small things matter—
a cup that waits without judgement,
a corner that holds stillness,
a moment set aside just to breathe.
These are not luxuries;
they are how we return to ourselves.

If I choose carefully what I bring into my space,
it is because life is already heavy.
What surrounds us should help us rest,
not remind us of what we owe.

Tonight, like many others,
I place the day down gently—
not because it was easy,
but because I deserve peace
after carrying it.


Written in the pauses of everyday life,
where small comforts matter
and mindful choices still believe in kindness.

Pen by Zee

I write often about everyday weight because I live it too.
Creating spaces that feel calmer, warmer, and more intentional has helped me slow down and breathe again. That philosophy carries beyond words — into the things I choose to surround myself with and the work I’m building through Jazeez Online and Zee Corner.

They’re not just stores to me, but extensions of this same belief: that what we bring into our lives should support us, not add to the noise.

Thoughtful spaces, by Zee Corner.

Living mindfully — with Jazeez

I write because life speaks softly,

and too often, we are taught not to listen.

I write for the ordinary moments we overlook—

the tired mornings, the heavy evenings,

the quiet victories no one applauds

and the silent battles no one sees.

My Commitment to Mental Health — And Why I’m Taking On the 2,000 Push-Up Challenge

Available only in New Zealand at the moment.

Cute planter pot available at Jazeez Store, $1 contribution will go to Mental Health NZ

Mental health isn’t just a topic we talk about when things fall apart — it’s something we nurture every single day. Over the years, I’ve learned that strength isn’t just measured in muscles or milestones… it’s measured in moments. Moments when we choose to show up for ourselves, and moments when we show up for others.

That’s why I’ve decided to take on a personal challenge:
2,000 push-ups in support of mental health.

Yes — 2,000.

Not for fitness.
Not for competition.
But for awareness, support, and conversation.

Why This Challenge Matters to Me

Mental health struggles are often silent, hidden behind smiles or busy routines. Many people fight battles no one sees. I want to use this challenge to spark conversations, break stigma, and remind anyone reading this that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Every push-up is a reminder of the importance of resilience — both physical and emotional.

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Join Me on This Journey

You don’t have to do 2,000 push-ups.
You don’t even have to do 20.

You can join me by:

  • Doing your own mini challenge
  • Sharing your mental health story (if you feel comfortable)
  • Encouraging someone who might be struggling
  • Or simply cheering from the sidelines

Your presence alone makes a difference.

Let’s Build a Community of Courage

I’d love for you to comment, share your thoughts, or even tell me what challenge you want to take on for your own wellbeing.
Like this post if it resonates, and please share it — you might reach someone who needs this reminder today.

If you’d like to support my push-up challenge for mental health, here’s the link:
👉 https://www.thepushupchallenge.co.nz/fundraiser/zoebali/the-push-up-challenge

Together, let’s raise awareness.
Let’s raise each other.
And yes — let’s raise the bar on how we talk about mental health. Alternatively below is the QR code for the fundraiser.

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Dreams, Interpretation and Spirituality

First part of my life 0 to 35-36 Years of Age a walk through my life’s journey and the dreams I saw what it could mean and possible interpretations.

The world of dreams is fascinating, exciting and mysterious, is also scary at times. While some people hardly dream and some dream occasionally and others very often.

Dreams are a medium of self realization and making necessary changes, only if the person dreaming can remember some or all of their dreams. It also tells the person about state of his mind. What that person might be thinking of or worried about. It can sometimes allow a person to pro actively act upon their present, past or future issues on hand depending on weather the issue is still valid or is going to be valid in near or distant future.

Here, I will write my dreams, their partial remembrance and any known or hidden meaning that can be easily established. As for my older dreams I can only draw a rough timeline and for my most current dreams I can validate it with more accurate or close timeline. As far as I understand I used to get dreams from my very early teens and twenties. Most of those are not remembered by me however, there was one dream that was almost recurring and had a very strong message or interpretation. I will talk about that dream in my next coming post.

What are your thoughts about dreams, do you dream a lot? do you remember them at all? How do yo u interpret your dreams? Do you like to self interpret or ask someone who has some knowledge about dreams? What do you do to feel better or understand your dreams? Comment, like and share your thoughts.

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