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(Continuation of my earlier post: “Letting Away Your Roots to Change the Fruits”)

In life, our “roots” aren’t just where we come from — they are the thoughts we nurture, the habits we repeat, the people we surround ourselves with, and the stories we keep telling ourselves.

Sometimes, these roots feed us with strength and wisdom.
But other times, they keep us stuck in the same season, producing the same “fruits” — outcomes we no longer want.

Why We Hold On to Old Roots

Comfort Zone – The familiar feels safe, even when it limits us.

Fear of Change – Letting go means uncertainty, and uncertainty can feel risky.

Emotional Attachments – People, places, and patterns we’ve grown with feel like part of our identity.

Signs It’s Time to Change the Roots

Issues Encountered
You keep repeating the same mistakes or cycles despite wanting different results.
Your goals excite you, but your daily actions don’t align with them.
You feel drained, uninspired, or “stuck” even when everything seems fine on the surface.

How to Start Changing the Roots (Without Losing Yourself)

Self-Audit Your Garden 🌿 – Write down the influences, habits, and beliefs shaping your life right now. Identify which ones feed your growth and which ones starve it.

Prune with Purpose ✂ – Let go of one unhelpful habit, thought pattern, or commitment that no longer serves your bigger vision.

Replant with Intention 🌸 – Replace the old with something that energizes you: new skills, empowering relationships, or a mindset shift.

Water Daily 💧 – Consistency is the secret. Small, repeated actions grow new roots stronger than you think.

The truth is, you can’t grow mangoes from an apple tree.
If you want different fruits, you must be brave enough to change the roots that feed them.

So today, ask yourself:
✨ What one root will I change so my life can bear better fruits?

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