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A Book for the Restless Soul: “Healing in Stillness” is Coming

Have you ever noticed how the world seems to get louder every day? The constant notifications, the endless demands, the relentless pressure to do and achieve… It can be deafening, leaving us feeling disconnected from ourselves and yearning for a sense of inner peace.

I spent years chasing that peace in external sources: accomplishments, relationships, even adventures. But what I discovered, ultimately, was that the most profound healing begins not in the external world, but within. It starts in the quiet spaces, the moments of stillness where we can truly listen to our own hearts.

That journey of personal discovery is what led me to write “Healing in Stillness” a book dedicated to exploring the transformative power of inner stillness. It’s not about escaping the world, but about cultivating a sanctuary within so that you can navigate life’s challenges with greater resilience, clarity, and joy.

“Healing in Silence” is an invitation to rediscover your own inner wisdom. To nurture the wounded parts of yourself. To find strength not in the noise, but in the quiet, powerful voice within.

What if the key to healing isn’t found in loud conversations, but in the profound wisdom of silence? My upcoming book, “Healing in Silence,” explores the transformative power of inner stillness. Are you ready to listen? #HealingInSilence #InnerPeace #SelfDiscovery #Mindfulness

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If I Opened a Shop…

If you were going to open up a shop, what would you sell?

Not all shops sell things.Some sell hope.Some sell change.Some sell the belief that kindness can be bought — and given away — in the same moment.If I opened a shop, it wouldn’t be just shelves and counters.It would be a beating heart wrapped in four walls,a place where each item whispered a storyand every sale became a seed of change.

I would call it “The Giving Corner.”A space where books breathe hope,where handcrafted treasures carry the touch of their makers,and where even the smallest purchaseripples out to feed a hungry soul,lift a struggling dreamer,or plant dignity where the soil was once barren.In one corner, my words would rest —poems, stories, and thoughts stitched with care,waiting for hands to hold themand hearts to carry them forward.Because to me, a shop is not a business.It’s a bridge.

A way to connect your kindness to someone else’s tomorrow.A place where buying becomes giving,and every transactionis just another way of saying,“You matter.”And if you walked out of my shop,you wouldn’t just carry a bag.You’d carry a piece of someone’s hope.

💬 Your turn: If you opened a shop, what would your walls hold — and what would it stand for?#SocialImpact #Entrepreneurship #KindnessInAction #PenByZee

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What change,big or small,would you like your blog to make in the world?

What change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?

If I could ask for one change—just one—from the words I share here, it would be this:

That we remember how deeply we need each other.

Not just in moments of crisis, not just when headlines remind us of suffering, but in the quiet, everyday spaces of life. The way a kind word softens someone’s day. The way shared stories remind us we’re not alone. The way a simple act of giving—whether food, time, or listening—can be a turning point in another person’s life.

My blog isn’t just about ideas, it’s about connection.
It’s about building a place—however small—where we remember that compassion isn’t weakness, it’s strength. That empathy isn’t a luxury, but a foundation. That when we choose to lift one another, even in the smallest of ways, we are building something far greater than ourselves.

I want this space to be a quiet rebellion against indifference.

A reminder that even when the world seems hardened, you still have the power to soften it—through your words, your presence, your care.

What if we stopped seeing people as strangers… and started seeing them as stories waiting to be heard?
What if we treated kindness not as a random act, but a conscious practice?

That is the change I hope this blog brings.

To inspire a deeper commitment to helping one another, to showing up with honesty, and to creating community where no one feels invisible

Because the truth is:
The world doesn’t change because of grand gestures.
It changes because we choose, again and again, to care.

So let this blog be a place where care lives.
Where trust is nurtured.
Where hope is kept alive not through perfection, but through the simple, sacred act of showing up—for one another.

This is Zoeb Ali – Zee, wishing you all the good luck in whatever positive, small or big you are doing in your life to improve life of your loved ones, unknown individuals and families struggling and needing your love ❤ and help and yourself. Keep reading my posts and comment,like and share so I know if my words make any difference to you. Thank you for reading my posts.

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Letting Away Your Roots to Change the Fruits

Hi everyone,

I  am still in recovery mode from my hernia surgery and currently working on my next post

Letting Away Your Roots to Change the Fruits.

Here I am intending to discuss how changing the way we think, the way we have been grown up to achieve the success with the changing time and situations. As I myself have been through a lot of changes emotionally, physically and in another aspects of my life.

I invite you to comment and like my topic and if you have anything that I should add or mention in my post please do le me know. I am happy to mention credit by adding your name/blogsites for authenticity if required.

With the hope of getting your support and love, signing off for now.

Looking forward to hear from you all.

Thank you,

Zee

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The Journey Home

There’s a certain pull that comes with the idea of “home.” It’s not just a place—it’s a collection of moments, memories, and emotions, woven together like a patchwork quilt. For me, that place is my hometown in India, where narrow streets hum with life, the aroma of freshly cooked spices lingers in the air, and laughter bounces off the walls of small, vibrant homes.

I left all of it behind, chasing opportunities in a distant, developed land. The choice felt right then, practical even. But as the years passed, I realized that while I gained material comforts, I left a part of my soul behind. My hometown—the soil, the people, the essence—called to me, but I was too distracted to listen.

Writing The Forgotten Garden brought back waves of nostalgia and reflection. It reminded me of a garden that once thrived in my childhood—a garden I abandoned along with my roots. Revisiting that garden in my mind stirred something profound: a longing to reconnect, to revive not just the garden but the parts of myself it represents.

This continuation is about that call, the journey back to one’s origins, and the healing that awaits when we answer.

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The call of home

The winds of time carried me far,
Across oceans wide, beneath foreign stars.
I built my dreams on distant lands,
With golden towers and weary hands.

But somewhere deep, a whisper grew,
A voice I knew, yet scarcely knew.
It called me back, both soft and strong,
A melody I’d lost too long.

The streets I walked in childhood days,
Now shadowed paths in memory’s haze.
The laughter, the cries, the scents that stayed,
Their echoes formed a fleeting parade.

The garden waits, a patient friend,
Its story unfinished, far from its end.
The flowers wilted, the fruitless trees,
Yet hope lingers in the breeze.

I pack my bags, not just with clothes,
But with fragments of dreams, with humble oaths.
To tend the soil that shaped my name,
And light once more that tender flame.

Each step I take feels bittersweet,
As past and present gently meet.
The forgotten blooms will rise anew,
In colors bright, in morning’s dew.

For home is not just bricks and stone,
But the seed of love we’ve always known.
It waits, it whispers, it longs to see,
The part of itself that lives in me.

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Is Wrongdoing the End of the World? Overcoming Guilt and Finding Acceptance

Introduction: The Weight of Wrongdoing

Every human being, at some point in life, stumbles. Some mistakes are minor, easily forgotten with time, while others leave deep scars—on the self, on others, and on the fabric of society. When a person commits a sin, a transgression, or even a crime, the weight of their actions can feel unbearable. But does a single moment, or even a series of wrongful choices, define a person’s entire worth? Is wrongdoing the end of the road, sealing one’s fate forever? Or is there still a possibility for redemption, healing, and acceptance?

Society, by its nature, often views individuals through the lens of their worst moments. A single misstep can overshadow a lifetime of good deeds, and judgment can be swift and merciless. This is especially true in an era where mistakes are publicly scrutinized, and forgiveness seems harder to come by. However, human nature is far more complex than a binary of good and evil. The person who has wronged and the person who has suffered are both part of a deeply intertwined story—one filled with pain, emotions, and the possibility of transformation.

For the wrongdoer, guilt can be suffocating, an endless spiral of self-recrimination and despair. They may wrestle with regret, self-hatred, and the paralyzing fear of never being accepted again. For the sufferer, the weight of betrayal and hurt can be equally overwhelming, leaving behind wounds that take time, and sometimes a lifetime, to heal. Can these two paths ever find reconciliation? Can accountability and forgiveness coexist?

Understanding the Emotional Turmoil

For the Wrongdoer: The Cycle of Guilt and Shame

  1. Guilt – The immediate realization of having caused harm can be overwhelming. A person might feel remorse, wishing they could undo their actions.
  2. Shame – Unlike guilt, which focuses on the act, shame attacks one’s identity. It creates a self-perception of unworthiness.
  3. Fear of Rejection – Many wrongdoers fear being cast out by society, family, or faith communities.
  4. Seeking Forgiveness – There’s often an inner yearning to seek forgiveness, from the victim, society, or a higher power.
  5. Despair or Hope? – Some fall into hopelessness, believing they are irredeemable. Others take the path of repentance and change.

For the Sufferer: The Battle with Pain and Anger

  1. Betrayal and Hurt – Whether it’s a crime, a lie, or a moral failing, victims feel deeply wounded.
  2. Anger and Resentment – A natural response, but when left unchecked, it can consume one’s peace.
  3. The Need for Justice – Victims want accountability, not just an apology.
  4. The Dilemma of Forgiveness – Is forgiveness possible? Is it deserved? Can one move forward without it?
  5. The Struggle for Healing – True healing is not just about forgetting but processing the pain constructively.

Does Society Accept Wrongdoers?

Society tends to be harsh toward those who have done wrong, especially when the wrongdoing is public. Some people believe that those who have committed sins or crimes do not deserve a second chance. Others advocate for rehabilitation and believe in the possibility of change.

  • Cancel Culture vs. Redemption Culture – Are we punishing people indefinitely, or are we allowing room for growth?
  • Religious and Cultural Views – Many spiritual traditions, including Islam, Christianity, and Buddhism, emphasize redemption and transformation.
  • Legal and Social Reintegration – While laws provide consequences, should they also support reform and reintegration?

The Religious Perspective on Redemption and Forgiveness

Islamic Teachings on Repentance and Mercy

Islam teaches that no sin is beyond forgiveness if one sincerely repents.

  • Allah’s Mercy is Greater than Any Sin – “Say, ‘O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.’” (Qur’an 39:53)
  • The Concept of Tawbah (Repentance) – Sincere repentance requires remorse, stopping the wrongdoing, and committing to change.
  • Justice and Forgiveness – Islam balances justice with forgiveness, encouraging victims to forgive if possible but also upholding their right to justice.

Christianity: The Power of Grace

Christianity emphasizes grace and redemption.

  • The parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) illustrates God’s boundless mercy.
  • Forgiveness is a central teaching: “If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (Matthew 6:14)

Buddhism: The Path of Transformation

Buddhism teaches that actions (karma) shape our future but also that transformation is always possible.

  • Mindfulness and self-awareness help in breaking the cycle of wrongdoing.
  • Forgiveness is seen as essential for inner peace.

How to Overcome Guilt and Move Forward

For the Wrongdoer: Steps Toward Redemption

  1. Acknowledge and Accept Responsibility – Own up to the mistake without justifying it.
  2. Sincere Repentance – Apologize, not just in words but through actions.
  3. Make Amends Where Possible – Seek to repair the harm caused.
  4. Commit to Change – Reflect, learn, and take concrete steps toward self-improvement.
  5. Seek Spiritual or Emotional Guidance – Connect with faith, therapy, or community support.
  6. Forgive Yourself – Self-forgiveness is crucial for moving forward.

For the Sufferer: Steps Toward Healing

  1. Acknowledge the Hurt – Don’t suppress emotions; process them healthily.
  2. Set Boundaries – Forgiveness does not mean tolerating further harm.
  3. Seek Justice if Needed – Healing doesn’t require ignoring justice.
  4. Find Support – Talk to a trusted friend, counselor, or spiritual guide.
  5. Consider Forgiveness for Your Own Peace – Even if reconciliation is impossible, letting go of anger can be freeing.

A Thought-Provoking End: Where Do We Go from Here?

Wrongdoing is not the end of the world, but it does require a conscious effort to heal, change, and grow. Both wrongdoers and those who suffer from their actions face emotional turmoil, yet healing is possible through accountability, repentance, and forgiveness.

Questions for Reflection:

  1. Do you believe in second chances? Why or why not?
  2. What role should society play in rehabilitating those who have done wrong?
  3. How do you personally navigate forgiving someone who has hurt you?
  4. If you’ve made mistakes in the past, what steps helped you move forward?
  5. Can justice and mercy coexist, or are they in opposition?

Let’s discuss in the comments and explore different perspectives!

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